The Laws of Attraction have been dissected ad nausea in countless ebooks and websites, making it easy to keep things simple. According to what we know about the Laws of Attraction, a male is first attracted to a female based on physical attributes. Only after he’s recognized her attractiveness is he interested in creating a relationship. Women, of course, are the polar opposite. The woman is attracted to a man’s characteristics. She takes note of his physical attributes, but is attracted to a man based on his confidence and other personality traits.

Attracting Women

When it comes down to finer points, attracting women doesn’t require more than the knowledge of how women like to play the game of love. Very few women see relationships – even those lasting a single night or afternoon – as truly casual. Women want something from every relationship they have, no matter how brief, and it rarely is purely physical release. Men, of course, come at the game from a different viewpoint. In order to attract women for the short or long term, you need to play the game her way.

The Finer Points of Attraction

You can be a complete gym rat and not be at all appealing to a woman. Your hard body will certainly win you points, but it is your personality and character that will win you the bulk of her approval. Women are attracted to many things in men – most of which are surprisingly simple.

Women like confident men. Think of yourself at the top of the proverbial heap. You know you’re a great guy and you bring a lot to any relationship. You’re not arrogant or cocky, but you’re certainly not groveling for her attention and know how to carry yourself for your own advantage.

Women like charismatic men. Charisma isn’t something reserved for preachers. Charisma is an underlying current that simply attracts people to you. Charisma can be a combination of confidence, manners, friendly nature and an open personality.

Women like communicators. Women are social by their very nature and being able to sit in the group and contribute meaningful to the conversation is important. Tell a funny story, throw in your opinion on the local news and artfully tease. Communication doesn’t mean dominating the conversation, however, as this can be extremely irritating to women.

Women like well-groomed men. You don’t have to look like an Adonis to get a woman’s attention, but favorable attention goes to the man who took time to shave, apply a classy aftershave or cologne and run a comb through his hair. Look sharp in clothing you’re comfortable wearing and don’t let the night and its alcohol consumption make you sloppy.

Women like men in control. Women like a man who has his own mind, but more importantly, women like men who know how to control themselves in conflict. Often going out on the town can bring out the worst in male aggression. Throwing punches doesn’t impress the caliber of girl you’re interested in. Learn how to diffuse the situation or walk away.

Women like friendly men. Don’t be her friend, but skip the sulking, mysterious act, too. Women like men who are naturally open and friendly. Be sure to include yourself naturally with her group, after all she’s likely out with her friends. Blend into the group as seamlessly as possible by making light conversation and being friendly with everyone. Gaining the approval of her friends is a huge point in your favor, after all.